Perspectives
Thoughtful takes on how we improve connection and shape community gatherings.
These pieces explore the bigger questions around connection, belonging, and community life today. They’re not about quick fixes or instructions, but about understanding what’s changing, what’s been lost, and what still matters.
From volunteering and dating to local groups and everyday social life, these perspectives reflect on why gathering can feel harder, and why it’s still so important.

Dating in Real Life
Dating in real life is back. More people are choosing to meet through shared activities and everyday community moments, rather than relying solely on dating apps.

Why Gossip Matters More Than We Think
Gossip is often dismissed as trivial, but it has long played a vital role in trust, power, and community. A Gather perspective on why informal, real-world connection still matters.

Why Local Groups Are Disappearing
Local groups and clubs across the UK are quietly disappearing, even as demand for connection grows. A Gather perspective on what’s been lost - and what needs to change.
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